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January 07, 2016

My 20 Percent Husband

January 07, 2016/ Wendy Paris
My 20 Percent Husband

Psychology Today magazine runs my essay on why a decent divorce is far more realistic than an all-out war.  

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November 26, 2015

Christmas with My Former In-Laws, Again?

November 26, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Christmas with My Former In-Laws, Again?

PERSONAL ESSAY: "It isn’t as if you can create your good divorce (or hammer through your bad one), brush off your hands, and consider your work done, particularly if your have children."  

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November 26, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
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November 19, 2015

3 Steps Toward Peace, In Divorce or Marriage

November 19, 2015/ Wendy Paris
3 Steps Toward Peace, In Divorce or Marriage

From decreasing negative rumination to learning the right lessons from the past, we can continue to improve our relationship with a former spouse, or new one.  

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get along with your ex
July 02, 2015

Divorce Counseling Works Better Than Marriage Therapy

July 02, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Divorce Counseling Works Better Than Marriage Therapy

I found it more productive to seek help with a discrete problem rather than a Total Personality Overhaul of my spouse, or me.

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June 11, 2015

2 Stellar Communication Skills I Learned in Divorce

June 11, 2015/ Wendy Paris
2 Stellar Communication Skills I Learned in Divorce

 As Sun Tzu wrote, “Supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting.” 

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April 16, 2015

Destination Divorce: The Tropical Mediation Vacation

April 16, 2015/ Wendy Paris
Destination Divorce: The Tropical Mediation Vacation

Should you go for a tropical mediation vacation? The founder of DivorceHotel says, "Yes!" Here's why.

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April 16, 2015/ Wendy Paris/
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no-fault divorce, divorcehotel, destination divorce, Mediation
April 08, 2015

4 Reasons You Might Be Better Friends After Divorce

April 08, 2015/ Wendy Paris
4 Reasons You Might Be Better Friends After Divorce

You need less from an ex. You might change. And two other relationship-improvement factors. 

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April 01, 2015

2 Team Approaches That Can Save You Thousands

April 01, 2015/ Wendy Paris
2 Team Approaches That Can Save You Thousands

Mediation and collaborative divorce are two of the most important innovations in family law—and can save you money and heartache.

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